Wednesday 18 March 2015

Sarging abroad - Truths and Myths

This is probably one of the topics that best embodies the dreams of so many men: going abroad, to an exotic foreign country, where you will be unique, special, interesting, rich, a great catch for girls. Moreover, the girls in those countries are hot as hell. Nothing to do with the obesity epidemic that infects the western world and, in addition to that, their genetic pool is much better: they are naturally tall and slim, they have blue or green eyes, thick lips, beautiful jaws, chins, eyes.... Oh, there's even more! They are not a bunch of fanatic feminists and, unlike like western women, they like to dress in a really feminine way (wearing high heels even to go to the shop in the corner), and they have a warm reaction to men approaching them, since they have not been infected by feminism and still expect that a man behaves like a man, and women behave like women. They still believe in marriage and love for live. They want to have a family and take care of children. They are supportive of men (not like the crazy maniac women in the West)

Well, you know what? Don't believe everything you read or hear!!! You know the saying "the grass always looks greener on the neighbour's garden"? That's pretty much what happens in this case.

Talk to a Mexican, he will say that Mexican women are the most difficult. Talk to a Spanish, he will say that about Spanish women. Talk to a German, the same! you get the idea. The reason for this is that one usually experiences the frustration in the women on their own country, for the simple fact that they are the ones that they can approach. It's a rule of life,  it applies to everything (jobs, cities, relationships....): we get tired of what we have, and we idealize what we don't have.We only see the negatives of the things that we deal with on our ordinary life. So it's easy to spot what you don't like in your job, your girlfriend, your city... and to become jaded from it. But it's obviously not that easy to get tired of the negative side of things that you don't experience. 

In my personal experience, when travelling to these countries and chatting up girls, I don't see that I get a clear competitive advantage. I have been to some poor countries in western Europe and I was reasonably successful... with average or maybe even some good looking girls. But the stunners... oh man, that's a completely different story!  They are as difficult to get as in your home town! Even in the shittiest town of the shittiest country there are some rich men, maybe some of them will also be good looking. And they are the "owners" of the place, of their same culture, therefore they are the ones women there try to get. Yes, it may be a poor country, but these guys may be way richer than you. So don't expect women from these places to run to you.

There's a lot of myth, there's a lot of fantasy in the fairy tales of solo travelers, in the stories they tell their friends when they come back home.

In this blog, I will show you a true view on many aspects of seduction, which is probably the facet of popular culture loaded with the biggest amounts bullshit. That bullshit makes you lose focus, makes you lose time and also psychological energy. I will guide you through my learnings and thoughts  these last years so you don't do the same mistakes and you can focus on what REALLY works. I won't promise you the Moon: the journey is though, and there in no promised land at the end of it. But I can assure you something: you will become a much more efficient Casanova, whilst learning how things really work and becoming a wiser man.

Let the journey begin.